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The Dating Rule For Body LanguageFeb 07, 2007by C._Hopkins
The dating rule for body language is VERY important. According to studies
carried out over 50% of your communication comes from your body language – what
you DON’T say and less then 8% of your communication comes from what you DO
say.
What does this dating rule for body language mean to you?
It
is MORE important to pay careful attention to the dating rule for body language
which is HOW you say things, and HOW you stand and HOW you act than it is to
WHAT you say (at least initially).
You see, you could have the BEST
dating rule game in the world and be able to really get any woman to like you
loads, for example online, but if you used those same successful dating rule
techniques in the real world and lacked obvious confidence, lacked eye contact
etc – You would simply CRASH and BURN.
Honestly, the dating rule for body
language is SOOOO important in attracting women. Later in the dating rule course
we’ll go into how you can use the female’s body language to READ her mind and
know what she’s thinking. This dating rule article is about YOUR body
language.
Ok… So, I’ll cover the dating rule basics as the advanced stuff
is beyond the scope of this dating rule article (if you want more advanced
detail concerning body language you can check out the site listed in the authors
bio box).
Dating Rule for Body language basics:
Dating Rule # 1.
Smile
For this dating rule be sure that you make the female feel at ease
and comfortable that you are a friendly and fun guy and you are not a psycho as
quick as possible. Especially when talking to her for the first time. For this
dating rule you also need to let her know that you are confident and comfortable
around women. A big and genuine smile is the best way to do this. It works. In
fact, if you ever get an Ice Queen that you can tell is about to give you the
“dead eye”, give her a big smile. Practice smiling at random people. You’ll be
surprised by how many people smile back and at how many doors open to you.
Smiling WORKS. Just don’t make it a cheesy, fake smile ;)
Dating Rule #
2. Eye contact
As you know there’s nothing worse than staring at a
woman’s chest – or even looking. It makes you just like all the other guys who
drool over her. If anything you should use all your skill to NOT look at her
chest – she’ll wonder why her womanly powers don’t work with you and she’ll seek
your attention and subconsciously TRY to get you to look!
For this dating
rule, when talking to her, try to maintain eye contact. Not too much because it
can be intimidating, but for this dating rule if you aim to have eye contact
with her around 70% of the time you are talking, this should be comfortable for
most women. Remember for this dating rule that you don’t stare like a crazy man,
just be natural but if you naturally look away or are slightly shy when it comes
to eye contact, make a conscious effort to have a little more. Eye contact can
make serious connections within people. They say the eyes are a window to the
soul and I think there may be some truth to that. There are even speed dating
type events being run that involve just staring into each others eyes – and from
what I hear, they are pretty successful.
Most important fact in dating
rule #3 - Maintain eye contact. Not too much, about 70% of conversation time. Be
natural.
Dating rule # 3. Upright posture
For this dating rule
remember that guys can get away with a bit of a hunch, but women really do
prefer men with straight, upright postures. Look at all the big film actors like
Pitt, Cruise etc. They all have good posture. It says to a woman you are
confident, healthy, and strong (at least in mind). Remember for this dating rule
that it’s just generally more attractive and says lots about who you are. Plus
it’s good for your back and will help strengthen your back muscles making it
easier to maintain.
Most important fact in dating rule # 3 get into the
HABIT of having an upright posture.
Dating rule # 4. Gesticulate with
open palms
You will not hear this dating rule tip anywhere else (or if
you do, it was almost certainly copied from this course).
I’ve gone into
in depth studies of body language and this one is a good one to use in MANY
circumstances – I’ve adapted it here after solid testing to picking up women –
however, some people suggest that when combined with a few other verbal and
non-verbal dating rule techniques it can even give you a 50/50 chance of getting
out of speeding fines! (so this is actually a bonus dating
rule!)
Basically, for this dating rule, when you are talking to a woman
and trying to make a point (that puts you in a positive light) or defend
yourself (for example, a girl suggests you might be a player) you talk and using
your hands you have open palms facing upwards. Keep your arms in front of your
body with your palms facing the sky and smile as you talk.
This dating
rule works VERY well on a subconscious level to suggest you are being honest and
telling the truth. And if you want a woman to begin to trust you, making her
think you are being straight with her, is important.
Remember for this
dating rule that this open palm gesticulation MUST be combined with a smile to
work effectively.
For more information about the body language dating
rule and other dating rules visit
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